I looked up the definition of squirting on the ever reliable (!) Urban Dictionary, which had a selection of definitions, but basically summarised it as “when a woman has an orgasm with female ejaculate”, with a “helpful” suggestion of how to use it in context
“She carried on fingering her pussy and rubbing her clit, she felt the need to pee. She knew she was close and kept going. Suddenly she stopped, a hot wet clear liquid squirting out of her pussy as she did. Her juices going everywhere. She regretted not putting some towels down as her bed is now soaked”
There is also a comment “Not all girls can squirt, so you are lucky if you can”
I think this quote helps identify some of the questions about the elusive act of squirting – and as “one of the lucky ones” I thought I would try and answer some of them
Is squirt just pee?
No, no, no and no. I have heard this question many times and the answer is definitely no
Firstly, I am a grown woman, I know how it feels to pee and squirting is not the same thing
There are occasions when my Dom likes to make me pee in my knickers. When I ask permission to go and pee and he declines my request. He makes me wait and wait, until I am uncomfortable and then he will play with me through my knickers. Hearing his voice in my ear “I am not stopping until you pee in those pretty little white panties”. Now that is a deliciously humiliating and arousing experience, but that is peeing in my knickers. That is a wholly different experience to squirting
Secondly, my Dom is a wonderful giver of oral sex and I am a very very very willing recipient. I love the feel of his tongue on my clit – I squirt over and over like that. And (now I am blushing) he will very happily swallow all my squirt and he would confirm that it is not pee he is tasting
Is it messy?
I am afraid, the only answer is yes. The comment above about needing towels is so true. Whenever I am enjoying a little solo play, I always make sure I have a towel or two to hand
However, if I am with my Dom, he can make me squirt multiple times – and frankly, the towel is not going to be sufficient. We have been known to leave a hotel room after a long play session, with the whole bed soaked
So, if you are someone who does not like lots of bodily fluids, then you should avoid girls who squirt
Personally though, I find most men love it. It is a very visual confirmation that you are cumming and that you are thoroughly enjoying whatever it is they are doing to you
How best to make yourself / your woman squirt?
Like everything sex related, there are no set rules – or none that I know! It is about what works for the two of you
However, I would recommend starting off well hydrated! I find if I squirt too many times in quick succession, I need to drink some water, before I can produce an impressive fountain again
Confession time – I cum very easily and I squirt very easily – so I can squirt from clit play, pussy stimulation, anal penetration, nipple teasing, you name it…; I can even squirt whilst sucking his cock if he has the right demeanour
But if I had to choose one method to definitely get me there it would be clit play. Teasing and stimulating my clit is the most reliable way to make me cum and to make me squirt
However, I know others think that sliding their fingers inside and curling them around until you find the G-spot is the best way to make a girl squirt
It is personal preference. Enjoy experimenting and practising!
Let It Go!
No, I am not suggesting a ballad about a princess and a snowman as your background music! But I do think there is an element of being able to “Let Go”, in allowing yourself to squirt
The quote I shared at the beginning of this blog said, “She carried on fingering her pussy and rubbing her clit, she felt the need to pee”. Now I have never thought of the sensation before squirting as being like I need to pee but having read that I can see some similarity. The same sense of pressure and the need for release
It makes me wonder if sometimes a woman is put off by that sensation. When actually you have to embrace that sensation, that build-up of need, and then just let go. The more relaxed and uninhibited I feel, the easier it becomes
Tease me
I have already admitted I cum very easily. So, what I really love, is when he edges me and makes me wait to cum. And this triggers the most impressive gushes of squirt!
There are many ways he can do this, but a favourite of mine is when he restrains me. Imagine him tying me to the bed, as he fastens each limb and tightens the rope the anticipation builds, and my arousal increases
Then he starts to touch me and stroke me and caress me all over; my neck, my arms, my inner thighs, my stomach – making every inch of my skin so sensitive. Already I will be whimpering with longing and need, wriggling before him on the bed
His mouth moves to my breasts, sucking and nibbling at the soft flesh, pulling the nipple into his warm mouth. Until his teeth close around the nipple, trapping it there as I cry out in pleasure and pain
He sees the buck of my hips and he knows he is close to triggering my release. He pulls back and gently blows on my nipple. I growl at him as he calms my impending orgasm
And so the pattern repeats, he works up my inner thighs with little pinches and bites, until he finally spreads my pussy lips and licks me ever so sensually. I try to hold still, but he recognises every movement of my body so well and knows as soon as I am close again and pulls away
I start to beg him for cock
He moves closer, but just the head of his cock pushes inside my soaking opening. He just holds it there. Enough for me to feel him stretch me. But agonisingly and frustratingly not enough, he will not push in and properly fill me
I can hear the desperation in my voice as I am panting and pleading with him
He calls me a greedy slut. His words just flame my arousal
Eventually, he will relent. He takes pity on my trembling, needy body before him
The fingers of one hand find my throbbing clit. With his other, three fingers push roughly inside me and start pumping in and out. I scream, I feel myself come undone, the pressure inside me releases, my back arches and a huge fountain of my juices squirts from me
I think I may have got carried away just writing this little section – suffice to say, I like teasing and would recommend some edging to build up to squirting
Is it worth the effort?
Oh yes, it is
It may sound like a lot of effort to achieve that elusive squirt – but it is so worth it
So, if you want to practise solo, go and find some time for yourself, fetch your favourite toys, and start slipping a hand inside your panties! Or, tell your Dom or your partner what turns you on the most and see if they can’t lend a helping hand, or tongue, or whatever does it for you
And remember – towels, towels, towels and more towels!
As usual. Extremely sexy and erotic as well as informative. Your ability to sometimes cum from just nipple-play totally intrigues me and is such an incredible turn on! I have seen videos of women having their nipples teased until they spasm an orgasm and their hips are writhing in exquisite pleasure. I do not think that is really a common trait and is unique to just a small group of women. Your ability to orgasm so easily form so many different stimuli can be a blessing and a course at times! LOL! I am so fascinated with that. Great Blog! (JTwalker7215 on twitter) Love ur stuff Kate!
Hello, Thank you so much for your kind message. I think it is mostly a blessing and always a lot of fun! Glad you enjoyed and thanks for commenting xxx
Absolutely love this. Watching this happen is so awesome. It hot. You explained it perfectly. ❤
That is so sweet of you to say. Thank you!
A deep dive into a subject that so few understand. Beautifully detailed, erotic but informative. I am slowly beginning to build a picture in my mind of who Kinky Katie is !
A good picture I hope!!!